Require some advice with my relationship, I’m not sure what you should do

I do not understand what do in order to any longer. Sorry this will undoubtedly be kinda long.

we knew if she ever came ultimately back inside the life I would personally lose him. He had been delivering 50-75+ texts messages a day and online with her etc. carried their phone every-where I knew he wanted to be with her with him, even to bed (which was not normal) After a while. (i understand we will n’t have done this but used to do) I told him if he really wants to be along with her to choose it, i shall move apart if it’ll make him pleased. He stated “no i wish to be with you, and she most likely doesn’t consider me personally this way, besides I’m hitched” we told him “well you’ll inform her that people are divided to check out where is goes.” That killed me to complete, but all we have ever desired would be to make him delighted, we clearly do not make him pleased, perhaps she could. I figured if she can make him delighted in which he wanted her therefore will move apart when it comes to 2 of these. Well after about four weeks or more, I inquired that which was taking place with them, he states just buddies she does not see me personally virtually any method. We stated “fine well I do not wish to cause you to choose but i can not anymore life like this, you need to actually choose”. Therefore now soon after we have experienced this talk, we have been said to be getting our wedding on the right track. He just talks and texts and/or online her whenever I’m wasn’t around. Often simply did not seem appropriate. I inquired him to head out one night make plans per week ahead of time, absolutely absolutely nothing dinner that is big a film or club, simply us (we seldom do just about anything devoid of the children and then he seldom simply take me down simply us). Therefore the evening come we go with dinner, he does indeedn’t state much to me personally, it had been really uncomfortable, after supper we had been planning to visit a club, but decided to go to see a film that has been pretty much to begin, once I chose to go right to the club, alternatively he began walking towards the automobile, he took me personally house by 9 pm, he wished to go back home so he could get online. Before i could read them), I started watching instant message convos and found he had a couple girlfriends, sending naked pic back and forth, he was telling her the lies he made up to tell me etc so I started watching text messages (he deleted most of them . We sat him down and had another civil convo with him and stated “this needs to end, it’s either me personally or perhaps the girlfriends” this convo lasted about 6 hrs. him telling me personally he really really loves me personally, they suggest absolutely nothing to him, etc etc etc. he told 1 g/f online it absolutely was over she did not go on it perfectly, and told 2 others it was over thru text communications. The only I told you about at first don’t go on it well after all, had been really mad, calling and swearing me personally names and him too, he stated absolutely absolutely nothing simply begged her forgiveness. His reason ended up being, well she actually is upset, she’s dilemmas, i did not desire to harm her. He’s got never cared climate he hurt me personally. okay anyways. all should now be over back again to me personally wedding right? NO!! Two to three weeks later on, He deleted her off his she them in change delivered him a note once more mad calling me personally title and him too swearing at him, and lastly says i’d like nothing at all to do with you. Two to three weeks later, he continues on up to buddy of hers and their page and it is once again begging her for forgiveness and telling her as well as least 400+ of associates that i’m delusional, and a mind situation. He told the G/F’s that my meds are not working, he doesn’t understand what my issue is, i am a relative mind instance, in which he is attempting to straighten things down so they can carry on together with them. We really have no idea just how long he had many of these g/f’s.

A year ago a vintage friend he used to be as a whole love with came ultimately back into their life